I went through all of this a while back when I planned out my battery relocation. No one seems to cover it well enough in any detail. Pretty everything you said above is what I thought as well.
I decided not to go down circuit breaker path because there simply weren't any the carried that kind of current that were readily available. Cost is another factor and i didn't want to bother with the Jaycar one as it seemed too low in the rating.
I opted for a 300 Amp ANL type fuse and bought myself a nice fuse holder for it. The holder was about $25 and the fuses were $10 for 3 at the time. I haven't had time all year to finish the setup though so I can't say how good it is but I'm confident it'll be fine. Circuit breakers rated at 100 Amp were around the $80+ mark.
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