Hard to say if you've done damage from shifting with it on mate........ I'd not expect the shock loads to damage the clutch itself though, more the other internals in the box.
Solenoid failing is unlikely, but worth checking if you can trigger it with the car off with an independent power source, you'll hopefully hear it click.
Odd about the cold vs hot fluid issue........ have you checked the oil level with the car running after a decent drive once the oil is up to temp? The A340 can be a bit precious about the oil level either being too high or too low.
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